Channeled by Daniel Scranton
We are here for you. We are The Creators. We are a twelfth-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings, and we are here to help.
We know that you are always doing the best that you can in all areas of your lives, but especially when it comes to all of your relationships with other people. You may be hard on someone else that you are in a relationship with because you are hard on yourself and because someone else, or several people, have been hard on you. You may be doing what you think is most appropriate within a romantic relationship because it is all that you have ever had modeled to you.
When you get together with someone else in a romantic relationship, you tend to see the best of them, initially. And then as time moves forward, you tend to see all parts of them, and you feel less love within you for that person as a result. The average person will try to change their partner, to try to get their partner to see the error of their ways, so they can shape up and be that very lovable person that first emerged within the relationship for them. Now, of course, this works to varying degrees for different people, but for the most part it is the person who is asking the other to change who needs to change.
It is important for you all to see that you are that love that you want to feel and that you can generate that love within yourself and feel it no matter what the other person is doing. And when you are sending love to the other person and being love under all circumstances, then you are getting what you think you need from the other person, but you are getting it from within yourself. You see, you don’t need anyone else to change in order to experience love when looking at that person or thinking about them. You may need to shift the way you are focusing on that person. You may need to decide what to focus upon when thinking about that person, but you do not need the other person to perfect themselves so that you can then offer them your conditional love.
Many people go from relationship to relationship thinking that they will finally find ‘the one’ who is going to be everything they think they need another person to be. It is important to accept and love yourselves as you are, and it is just as important to do that for everyone else who is in your life, regardless of whether the relationship in question is a romantic one. We know that you expect a lot from your children and from your parents as well. You expect them to always be in alignment with Source and be beaming that unconditional love of Source upon you. But often they cannot because they have not been taught how to do so.
When we tell you to go within and generate the love that you truly are from inside of you, that is what we are attempting to do. We are attempting to teach you how to find the love that you truly are so that you can be it and feel it in all circumstances and around all people. And then you won’t be asking anyone else to complete you or to love you unconditionally. And that will make your life a whole lot easier and it will make your relationships a whole lot better, and you will fill yourselves up whenever you need to, because you will have practiced it, and you will have practiced it because you want to be in a loving romantic relationship with another person. Ultimately, however, you want to start having that relationship with yourself.
We are The Creators, and we love you very much.
